Das ist die Antwort auf Beitrag 21138005

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Re: Frage!
<b><a class='wld' title='Es'>Es</a> <a class='wld' title='hängt'>hängt</a>, <a class='wld' title='so'>so</a> <a class='wld' title='meine'>meine</a> <a class='wld' title='ich'>ich</a> <a class='wld' title='nicht'>nicht</a> <a class='wld' title='von'>von</a> <a class='wld' title='dem'>dem</a> <a class='wld' title='Kulturkreis'>Kulturkreis</a> <a class='wld' title='ab'>ab</a> <a class='wld' title='aus'>aus</a> dem <a class='wld' title='der'>der</a> <a class='wld' title='Mann'>Mann</a> <a class='wld' title='stammt'>stammt</a></b>

<b><a class='wld' title='Es'>Es</a> <a class='wld' title='ist'>ist</a> <a class='wld' title='vielleicht'>vielleicht</a> <a class='wld' title='komplizierter'>komplizierter</a> <a class='wld' title='dem'>dem</a> <a class='wld' title='Familienstamm'>Familienstamm</a> <a class='wld' title='klar'>klar</a> <a class='wld' title='zu'>zu</a> <a class='wld' title='machen'>machen</a>, <a class='wld' title='das'>das</a> <a class='wld' title='es'>es</a> <a class='wld' title='DIE'>DIE</a> <a class='wld' title='Frau'>Frau</a> ist <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='keine'>keine</a> andere</b>Aber die Zeit spielt meist über die Jahre für einen, wenn es denn tatsächlich die LIEBE ist, die man sich damals vorgestellt, erwartet und gefühlt hat und sich über die Jahre verfestigt und intensiviert hat</b><a class='wld' title='andereAber'>andereAber</a><a class='wld' title='die'>die</a><a class='wld' title='Zeit'>Zeit</a><a class='wld' title='spielt'>spielt</a><a class='wld' title='meist'>meist</a><a class='wld' title='über'>über</a><a class='wld' title='Jahre'>Jahre</a><a class='wld' title='für'>für</a><a class='wld' title='einen'>einen</a><a class='wld' title='wenn'>wenn</a><a class='wld' title='denn'>denn</a><a class='wld' title='tatsächlich'>tatsächlich</a><a class='wld' title='LIEBE'>LIEBE</a><a class='wld' title='man'>man</a><a class='wld' title='sich'>sich</a><a class='wld' title='damals'>damals</a><a class='wld' title='vorgestellt'>vorgestellt</a><a class='wld' title='erwartet'>erwartet</a><a class='wld' title='gefühlt'>gefühlt</a><a class='wld' title='hat'>hat</a><a class='wld' title='verfestigt'>verfestigt</a><a class='wld' title='intensiviert'>intensiviert</a>

<b><a class='wld' title='Deinen'>Deinen</a> <a class='wld' title='Stammdaten'>Stammdaten</a> <a class='wld' title='nach'>nach</a> <a class='wld' title='zu'>zu</a> <a class='wld' title='urteilen'>urteilen</a> <a class='wld' title='du'>du</a> <a class='wld' title='hast'>hast</a> <a class='wld' title='ein'>ein</a> <a class='wld' title='schönes'>schönes</a> <a class='wld' title='großes'>großes</a> "<a class='wld' title='DE'>DE</a>" <a class='wld' title='als'>als</a> <a class='wld' title='erstes'>erstes</a> <a class='wld' title='eingepflegt'>eingepflegt</a>, <a class='wld' title='gehe'>gehe</a> <a class='wld' title='ich'>ich</a> <a class='wld' title='davon'>davon</a> <a class='wld' title='aus'>aus</a>, <a class='wld' title='dass'>dass</a> du <a class='wld' title='deutsche'>deutsche</a> <a class='wld' title='bist'>bist</a></b>

<b><a class='wld' title='Wir'>Wir</a> <a class='wld' title='haben'>haben</a> <a class='wld' title='in'>in</a> <a class='wld' title='unserem'>unserem</a> <a class='wld' title='Bekanntenkreis'>Bekanntenkreis</a> <a class='wld' title='viele'>viele</a> <a class='wld' title='Deutsch'>Deutsch</a>-<a class='wld' title='Türkische'>Türkische</a> <a class='wld' title='Paare'>Paare</a> (<a class='wld' title='Frau'>Frau</a> <a class='wld' title='meistens'>meistens</a> <a class='wld' title='deutsch'>deutsch</a>, <a class='wld' title='Mann'>Mann</a> <a class='wld' title='türkischer'>türkischer</a> <a class='wld' title='Nationalität'>Nationalität</a>), <a class='wld' title='die'>die</a> <a class='wld' title='meisten'>meisten</a> <a class='wld' title='sind'>sind</a> <a class='wld' title='erst'>erst</a> <a class='wld' title='durch'>durch</a> <a class='wld' title='Umwege'>Umwege</a> <a class='wld' title='zu'>zu</a> <a class='wld' title='ihren'>ihren</a> <a class='wld' title='jetzigen'>jetzigen</a> <a class='wld' title='Partnern'>Partnern</a> <a class='wld' title='gekommen'>gekommen</a>.
<a class='wld' title='Erst'>Erst</a> <a class='wld' title='die'>die</a> <a class='wld' title='Scheidung'>Scheidung</a> <a class='wld' title='von'>von</a> <a class='wld' title='ihrer'>ihrer</a> <a class='wld' title='1'>1</a>.<a class='wld' title='Lebensgefährtin'>Lebensgefährtin</a> <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='jetzt'>jetzt</a> <a class='wld' title='sind'>sind</a> die <a class='wld' title='meisten'>meisten</a> <a class='wld' title='in'>in</a> <a class='wld' title='der'>der</a> <a class='wld' title='zweiten'>zweiten</a> <a class='wld' title='Ehe'>Ehe</a> <a class='wld' title='mit'>mit</a> <a class='wld' title='deutscher'>deutscher</a> <a class='wld' title='Frau'>Frau</a> (mit und <a class='wld' title='ohne'>ohne</a> <a class='wld' title='Kinder'>Kinder</a> <a class='wld' title='aus'>aus</a> <a class='wld' title='erster'>erster</a>, <a class='wld' title='sowie'>sowie</a> <a class='wld' title='zweiter'>zweiter</a> Ehe <a class='wld' title='alles'>alles</a> <a class='wld' title='dabei'>dabei</a>).

<a class='wlx' title='O'>O</a>-<a class='wld' title='Ton'>Ton</a> <a class='wld' title='von'>von</a> <a class='wld' title='unseren'>unseren</a> <a class='wld' title='Männern'>Männern</a>, <a class='wld' title='die'>die</a> <a class='wld' title='möchten'>möchten</a> <a class='wld' title='nie'>nie</a> <a class='wld' title='wieder'>wieder</a> <a class='wld' title='Eine'>Eine</a> <a class='wld' title='andere'>andere</a> <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='dann'>dann</a> <a class='wld' title='schon'>schon</a> <a class='wld' title='gar'>gar</a> <a class='wld' title='nicht'>nicht</a> <a class='wld' title='aus'>aus</a> <a class='wld' title='unserem'>unserem</a> <a class='wld' title='Kulturkreis'>Kulturkreis</a> (<a class='wld' title='türkisch'>türkisch</a>/<a class='wld' title='kurdisch'>kurdisch</a>).</b>

<b><a class='wld' title='Wenn'>Wenn</a> <a class='wld' title='du'>du</a> <a class='wld' title='von'>von</a> <a class='wld' title='deinem'>deinem</a> <a class='wld' title='Geburtsjahr'>Geburtsjahr</a> <a class='wld' title='ausgehst'>ausgehst</a> <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='dich'>dich</a> <a class='wld' title='in'>in</a> <a class='wld' title='der'>der</a> <a class='wld' title='Altersklasse'>Altersklasse</a> <a class='wld' title='zwischen'>zwischen</a> <a class='wld' title='18'>18</a> und <a class='wld' title='ca'>ca</a>.<a class='wld' title='30'>30</a> <a class='wld' title='Jahren'>Jahren</a> <a class='wld' title='befindest'>befindest</a>, <a class='wld' title='bitte'>bitte</a> <a class='wld' title='Finger'>Finger</a> von <a class='wld' title='lassen'>lassen</a>, <a class='wld' title='die'>die</a> <a class='wld' title='wollen'>wollen</a> <a class='wld' title='NUR'>NUR</a> <a class='wld' title='SPIELEN'>SPIELEN</a></b>

<b><a class='wld' title='Klar'>Klar</a> <a class='wld' title='kann'>kann</a> <a class='wld' title='sich'>sich</a> <a class='wld' title='da'>da</a> <a class='wld' title='auch'>auch</a> <a class='wld' title='etwas'>etwas</a> <a class='wld' title='entwickeln'>entwickeln</a>, <a class='wld' title='ist'>ist</a> <a class='wld' title='aber'>aber</a> <a class='wld' title='eher'>eher</a> <a class='wld' title='kompliziert'>kompliziert</a>, <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='der'>der</a> <a class='wld' title='Statistische'>Statistische</a> <a class='wld' title='Wert'>Wert</a> <a class='wld' title='in'>in</a> der <a class='wld' title='Familie'>Familie</a> <a class='wld' title='bei'>bei</a> <a class='wld' title='uns'>uns</a> und <a class='wld' title='im'>im</a> <a class='wld' title='Bekanntenkreis'>Bekanntenkreis</a> <a class='wld' title='zeigt'>zeigt</a> <a class='wld' title='funktioniert'>funktioniert</a> <a class='wld' title='nicht'>nicht</a>: <a class='wld' title='Es'>Es</a> <a class='wld' title='sei'>sei</a> <a class='wld' title='denn'>denn</a> <a class='wld' title='türkische'>türkische</a>/<a class='wld' title='kurdische'>kurdische</a> <a class='wld' title='Frau'>Frau</a> <a class='wld' title='sucht'>sucht</a> sich '<a class='wld' title='nen'>nen</a> <a class='wld' title='Deutschen'>Deutschen</a> und <a class='wld' title='erklärt'>erklärt</a> <a class='wld' title='ihren'>ihren</a> <a class='wld' title='Eltern'>Eltern</a>, <a class='wld' title='dass'>dass</a> ist <a class='wld' title='meine'>meine</a> Liebe</b>Funktioniert und wird auch (irgendwann) akzeptiert :)<a class='wld' title='LiebeFunktioniert'>LiebeFunktioniert</a><a class='wld' title='wird'>wird</a><a class='wld' title='irgendwann'>irgendwann</a><a class='wld' title='akzeptiert'>akzeptiert</a>

<b><a class='wld' title='Jetzt'>Jetzt</a> <a class='wld' title='aber'>aber</a> <a class='wld' title='einmal'>einmal</a> <a class='wld' title='bitte'>bitte</a> <a class='wld' title='generell'>generell</a>, <a class='wld' title='das'>das</a> <a class='wld' title='soll'>soll</a> <a class='wld' title='nicht'>nicht</a> <a class='wld' title='besserwisserisch'>besserwisserisch</a> <a class='wld' title='klingen'>klingen</a> <a class='wld' title='auch'>auch</a> nicht <a class='wld' title='verletzend'>verletzend</a> aber

<span style='color:yellow'><a class='wld' title='Tief'>Tief</a> <a class='wld' title='in'>in</a> <a class='wld' title='deinem'>deinem</a> <a class='wld' title='Inneren'>Inneren</a> <a class='wld' title='hast'>hast</a> <a class='wld' title='du'>du</a> <a class='wld' title='dir'>dir</a> <a class='wld' title='deine'>deine</a> <a class='wld' title='Frage'>Frage</a> <a class='wld' title='selbst'>selbst</a> <a class='wld' title='beantwortet'>beantwortet</a>, <a class='wld' title='wenn'>wenn</a> du <a class='wld' title='niemanden'>niemanden</a> hast, <a class='wld' title='der'>der</a> dir <a class='wld' title='das'>das</a> <a class='wld' title='sagen'>sagen</a> <a class='wld' title='kann'>kann</a>, <a class='wld' title='sag'>sag</a> <a class='wld' title='ich'>ich</a> <a class='wld' title='es'>es</a> dir <a class='wld' title='auf'>auf</a> <a class='wld' title='mich'>mich</a> <a class='wld' title='darfst'>darfst</a> du <a class='wld' title='wütend'>wütend</a>, <a class='wld' title='enttäuscht'>enttäuscht</a> <a class='wld' title='sein'>sein</a>, mich <a class='wld' title='dann'>dann</a> <a class='wld' title='anbrüllen'>anbrüllen</a> <a class='wld' title='bzw'>bzw</a>. <a class='wld' title='deinen'>deinen</a> <a class='wld' title='Rechner'>Rechner</a>.

<a class='wld' title='NEIN'>NEIN</a> <a class='wld' title='ES'>ES</a> <a class='wld' title='KLAPPT'>KLAPPT</a> <a class='wld' title='NICHT'>NICHT</a> <a class='wld' title='UND'>UND</a> <a class='wld' title='ER'>ER</a> <a class='wld' title='WIRD'>WIRD</a> NICHT <a class='wld' title='KÄMPFEN'>KÄMPFEN</a>!
<a class='wld' title='Es'>Es</a> <a class='wld' title='heißt'>heißt</a> <a class='wld' title='das'>das</a> <a class='wld' title='höchste'>höchste</a> <a class='wld' title='GUT'>GUT</a> <a class='wld' title='im'>im</a> <a class='wld' title='LEBEN'>LEBEN</a> <a class='wld' title='zu'>zu</a> <a class='wld' title='schützen'>schützen</a>, <a class='wld' title='auch'>auch</a> <a class='wld' title='die'>die</a> <a class='wld' title='LIEBE'>LIEBE</a> <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='DEN'>DEN</a> <a class='wld' title='PARTNER'>PARTNER</a> (<a class='wld' title='MAN'>MAN</a> <a class='wld' title='IST'>IST</a> <a class='wld' title='TEAMPLAYER'>TEAMPLAYER</a>), die <a class='wld' title='Frage'>Frage</a> <a class='wld' title='wirft'>wirft</a> <a class='wld' title='von'>von</a> <a class='wld' title='dir'>dir</a> <a class='wld' title='Unsicherheit'>Unsicherheit</a> <a class='wld' title='auf'>auf</a>, <a class='wld' title='durch'>durch</a> die Frage <a class='wld' title='allein'>allein</a>, <a class='wld' title='kamst'>kamst</a> <a class='wld' title='du'>du</a> <a class='wld' title='selbst'>selbst</a> <a class='wld' title='zum'>zum</a> <a class='wld' title='Resultat'>Resultat</a> (und <a class='wld' title='unterstellst'>unterstellst</a> <a class='wld' title='ihm'>ihm</a> <a class='wld' title='somit'>somit</a> das <a class='wld' title='er'>er</a> <a class='wld' title='wohl'>wohl</a> <a class='wld' title='gar'>gar</a> <a class='wld' title='nicht'>nicht</a> <a class='wld' title='kämpfen'>kämpfen</a> <a class='wld' title='wird'>wird</a> <a class='wld' title='oder'>oder</a> <a class='wld' title='kann'>kann</a>, <a class='wld' title='vom'>vom</a> <a class='wld' title='Thron'>Thron</a> <a class='wld' title='stürzen'>stürzen</a> <a class='wld' title='darfst'>darfst</a> du <a class='wld' title='ihn'>ihn</a> <a class='wld' title='doch'>doch</a> <a class='wld' title='erst'>erst</a>, <a class='wld' title='wenn'>wenn</a> er <a class='wld' title='deine'>deine</a> <a class='wld' title='Küche'>Küche</a> <a class='wld' title='abfackelt'>abfackelt</a> oder <a class='wld' title='dich'>dich</a> <a class='wld' title='schlecht'>schlecht</a> <a class='wld' title='behandelt'>behandelt</a> <a class='wld' title='aber'>aber</a> doch nicht <a class='wld' title='vorher'>vorher</a> <a class='wld' title='schon'>schon</a>, <a class='wld' title='sorry'>sorry</a> <a class='wld' title='meine'>meine</a> <a class='wld' title='kulturellen'>kulturellen</a> <a class='wld' title='Einflüsse'>Einflüsse</a>).
<a class='wld' title='DAS'>DAS</a> <a class='wld' title='erste'>erste</a> <a class='wld' title='Gefühl'>Gefühl</a> <a class='wld' title='ist'>ist</a> <a class='wld' title='meistens'>meistens</a> <a class='wld' title='das'>das</a> <a class='wld' title='richtige'>richtige</a>, <a class='wld' title='ES'>ES</a> <a class='wld' title='versucht'>versucht</a> <a class='wld' title='uns'>uns</a> <a class='wld' title='zu'>zu</a> <a class='wld' title='schützen'>schützen</a>, <a class='wld' title='bitte'>bitte</a> <a class='wld' title='niemals'>niemals</a> <a class='wld' title='ignorieren'>ignorieren</a> (<a class='wld' title='reiner'>reiner</a> <a class='wld' title='beruflicher'>beruflicher</a> <a class='wld' title='Instinkt'>Instinkt</a> <a class='wld' title='von'>von</a> <a class='wld' title='mir'>mir</a>, <a class='wld' title='der'>der</a> <a class='wld' title='mich'>mich</a> <a class='wld' title='oft'>oft</a> <a class='wld' title='schon'>schon</a> <a class='wld' title='vorab'>vorab</a> <a class='wld' title='gerettet'>gerettet</a> <a class='wld' title='hat'>hat</a>)</b>

<b><a class='wld' title='War'>War</a> <a class='wld' title='es'>es</a> <a class='wld' title='eine'>eine</a> <a class='wld' title='Suggestivfrage'>Suggestivfrage</a>, <a class='wld' title='um'>um</a> <a class='wld' title='Erfahrungswerte'>Erfahrungswerte</a> <a class='wld' title='auszutauschen'>auszutauschen</a>, <a class='wld' title='wünsche'>wünsche</a> <a class='wld' title='ich'>ich</a> <a class='wld' title='Dir'>Dir</a> <a class='wld' title='alles'>alles</a> <a class='wld' title='Beste'>Beste</a> <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='Liebe'>Liebe</a> und <a class='wld' title='EUCH'>EUCH</a> <a class='wld' title='natürlich'>natürlich</a> <a class='wld' title='viel'>viel</a> <a class='wld' title='Erfolg'>Erfolg</a> <a class='wld' title='die'>die</a> <a class='wld' title='Brennherde'>Brennherde</a> <a class='wld' title='zu'>zu</a> <a class='wld' title='meistern'>meistern</a></b>

<b><a class='wld' title='LG'>LG</a> <a class='wld' title='sindbad'>sindbad</a>, <a class='wld' title='schaut'>schaut</a> <a class='wld' title='wieviel'>wieviel</a> <a class='wld' title='Glück'>Glück</a> <a class='wld' title='dieses'>dieses</a> <a class='wld' title='Kind'>Kind</a> <a class='wld' title='hat'>hat</a>, <a class='wld' title='la'>la</a>, la <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='PS'>PS</a>.
<a class='wld' title='singen'>singen</a> <a class='wld' title='hilft'>hilft</a>, <a class='wld' title='sing'>sing</a> <a class='wld' title='und'>und</a> <a class='wld' title='schrei'>schrei</a> <a class='wld' title='alles'>alles</a> <a class='wld' title='heraus'>heraus</a>!

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